Love Lost

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Love Lost

Postby MountainMover » Wed Feb 01, 2012 11:07 am

I was in a 13 year relationship with the love of my life.We made jokes that our 13th year was going to be the hardest but I had no idea it would ever come true.He totally betrayed my trust and left me for my best friend when I needed him the most.I had just lost both of my parents in the span of 3 years and was having a very difficult time dealing with my emotions and even had to take time off work.During this time I wasnt very affectionate and that is when he decided to step out on me with my very best friend. I was devisated and both of them treated me like it was my fault and were more cruel to me then I had ever thought was possible by people I cared about so much.I thought I would never get over it but much to my surprise I met someone that makes my exhusband look like a complete joke.I really feel loved now and I can see his heart through his eyes and I know he would never do something like that to me.The better part of it is that I heard my best friend had got cold feet when he asked her to marry him. I guess the reason being is he said she just didnt trust that he would remain faithful to her in a marriage since he left me so quickly for her.When I heard this I could only do one thing which was smile from ear to ear and think about how KARMA finally caught up with that heartless spineless jerk. It will always catch up to you sooner or later and level the playing field.
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Re: Love Lost

Postby GoldenEgg » Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:16 pm

haha aint it sweet to know they got what was coming to them
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Re: Love Lost

Postby Mystery » Thu Feb 02, 2012 9:24 am

@MountainMover I love a story with a happy ending. Does your ex husband ever try to get in touch with you because his little affair didnt work out the way he planned it?
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Re: Love Lost

Postby AuntD » Thu Feb 02, 2012 1:54 pm

hehe the grass wasn't greener on the other side was it bubba. glad you found love again.
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Re: Love Lost

Postby MountainMover » Thu Feb 02, 2012 3:36 pm

@Mystery yes he tries to contact me but I always give him the benefit of the doubt and make sure its not an emergency and I never keep it secret from my current guy so it is no big deal. I have forgiven him and moved on but I just think it is funny how he thought his problems would be all better with her and now he is alone and nobody wants him. Life always has a way of working things out.
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Re: Love Lost

Postby <3always » Fri Feb 10, 2012 10:41 am

now thats what I call a happy ending :D
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Re: Love Lost

Postby ValleyGirl » Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:43 am

Good for you MountainMover you dont deserve a guy who is going to leave you when the going gets tough.I hope that the man that you have in your life now is everything you never have had before and more so you dont miss your ex husband for anything. It always amazes me how people can just leave their husband or wife like its no big deal and they can just move on. Obviously he found out that he had no idea what he was doing and when he realized it you had already moved on. Thank god the ending of the story wasnt you taking him back after he got to go have his little experiment.
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Re: Love Lost

Postby cloud9 » Tue Feb 21, 2012 3:29 pm

You should put him on speaker phone next time he calls begging to take him back and let you new guy listen and when he gets to a really emotional part you should both bust up laughing at him. I bet he doesnt try doing that anymore after that HAHA
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Re: Love Lost

Postby scoobydoo » Mon Mar 19, 2012 9:49 am

cloud9 wrote :
> You should put him on speaker phone next time he calls begging to take him
> back and let you new guy listen and when he gets to a really emotional part
> you should both bust up laughing at him. I bet he doesnt try doing that
> anymore after that HAHA

then put it on youtube and let the whole world see how dumb cheaters are :lol:
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Re: Love Lost

Postby Htrain » Tue Mar 27, 2012 11:59 am

Thanks for the good laugh MountainMover its always nice to see Karma take its course for the evil. Im glad you finally found someone that loves you and appreciates everything about you.
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