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There is nothing like the support of some good friends and when your heart gets broken those friends will do their best to cheer you up. Go have a guys night out or ladies night where all you do is have fun and get your mind off all of the past that has been bothering you. Sometimes just a nice night with your support group of friends is perfect for relieving the stress you have been under and allows you to relax and laugh. At the end of the night you will realize how much life there is to live and wont dwell on the bad things anymore. Just go have some fun and stop allowing the bad to over shadow the good.
Nothing like going out with your friends after being freshly single and free of a terrible relationship.All they want is for you to be happy and all of the attention is on you like its your bachelor party but reversed haha. Being with people who can make you laugh and smile is key to the recovering process because you feel like that is behind you after a fun night out.
Most people have had one of these nights and sometimes you meet someone and line up a date for another night. Now how about that for getting your mind off of your ex by arranging a date the first night you go out single. That should make you feel like you are a good catch and have more confidence that if whoever you are with cheats on you that you will not be lonely but just find someone better than the last with no time in between.
Hopefully going out on your ladies night you can meet a goup of guys that are on guys night out and make it a group date night.You know they will probably be looking for some no strings attatched fun and so are you so, what do you have to lose? Life is short so dont spend time crying over the past.
Some of the best nights of my life were when I would get out of a bad relationship. It is always funny to hear how many of your friends hate your ex as soon as you break up finally.Its pretty theraputic to hear so many bad things about them though. At least I can say I enjoy hearing people bash the person who just ripped my heart out. Everytime I was cheated on or just was with someone who treated me like sh*t then my friends would always take me out from some drinks and laughs and make sure I was happy.
I think the best part of breaking up with someone is the first night out being single. You feel like you have no shackles to hold you down and you can do whatever you want that night and not have to worry about anyones feeling but your own. Ladies night out I think is more about connecting with your girlfriends and turning to the next page while guys on the other hand just want to be with a new woman sexually so they can forget about the old one.
I never had this kind of celebration because I have never been in a relationship before my marriage to have an negative impact where I needed friends to comfort me. Every fling I had I went into it thinking that it was no big deal and would be over in 6-8 weeks and I was usually right give or take a few weeks. It sounds like it would be a perfect night to get a fun date that already knows where your mind set is at SEX!
Ladies night out is more like just talking about men and bashing all of their faults. Guys night out would be more like getting very drunk and hooking up with a random female to mark the occassion of being over an ex. Both nights are evry fun but very different in how they celebrate.
Ginger wrote : > Ladies night out is more like just talking about men and bashing all of > their faults. Guys night out would be more like getting very drunk and > hooking up with a random female to mark the occassion of being over an ex. > Both nights are evry fun but very different in how they celebrate.
Hardly what ladies night out is all about Ginger. Its about reconnected with your girls that are always in your corner and receiving support from people you care about. You get to hear horror stories from what your girls are dealing with and everyone coaches you back into a happy state of mind again. Do you bash your ex OF COURSE. Thats not what the entire night is dedicated to though.