Talk to an Ex of theirs

[NiceJob]

One way to find out if you have a potential cheater is to ask their exes if they recognize some of the behavior you have been experiencing. Of course they might embelish so you have to take everything with a grain of salt but even still if you can find out if they have a history of cheating it will allow you to connect the dots better.

[Spliced]

What if they try to rat you out when you come to confide in them with something important to you just so they can make your situation worse?

[MixesWell]

It is hard to find their exes when they lie about their past. One time I dated a man that claimed he had never wanted to get married until he met me and 4 months into the relationship I found out he had been divorced twice. I didnt stick around to hear his explaination because I knew it would be more lies.

[SlickRob]

And if they lived in another state sometimes they will be nearly impossible to find an ex

[NumeroUno]

If you ever asked me about one of my exes I would just bash them no matter what so I dont know if you could take my opinion to heart.

[PollyPocket]

I hear that NumeroUno! Thats why they are called exes

[Syrup]

I wouldnt think that an ex would be willing to help you but if you are dating someone who is a secretive cheater or something like that I would do everything in my power to get that info.

[combined]

NumeroUno wrote :
> If you ever asked me about one of my exes I would just bash them no matter
> what so I dont know if you could take my opinion to heart.

Yeah the majority of people would just throw their ex under the bus to make their life more miserable.

[Tortoise]

or they could be crazy and try to get back into their lives through you so be careful you might figure out why they are an ex

[Dandy1]

I spoke to my bf's ex one time BIG MISTAKE she tried to make all kinds of crazy accusations that I knew were false because the timeline didnt even make sense. You will most likely meet a crazy stalker weirdo and will do you no good.