Debt

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Re: Debt

Postby JessSeeLuvsChevys » Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:25 pm

I don't think that i'm in anyway indebted to the person I've cheated on in the past but i do think that an apology may be in order.
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Re: Debt

Postby tawny » Wed Mar 27, 2013 9:46 pm

I don't think someone would be in debt, but depending on the relationship, an apology may be awkward. I don't know. But debt? No.
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Re: Debt

Postby escapeLA » Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:08 pm

tawny wrote :
> I don't think someone would be in debt, but depending on the relationship,
> an apology may be awkward. I don't know. But debt? No.
In like a debt karma kind of way I think they owe the universe for cheating
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Re: Debt

Postby missydee » Mon Apr 08, 2013 5:56 pm

I don't know about debt, but I do know that when someone is cheated on, no matter what, that comes into the new relationship. Therefore, it causes more strain on that relationship then those carry it to the next. Its a vicious cycle. But debt is you constantly owe someone for the damages caused.
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Re: Debt

Postby kindredspirit » Mon Apr 15, 2013 2:30 pm

missydee wrote :
> I don't know about debt, but I do know that when someone is cheated on, no
> matter what, that comes into the new relationship. Therefore, it causes
> more strain on that relationship then those carry it to the next. Its a
> vicious cycle. But debt is you constantly owe someone for the damages
> caused.
That makes absolute sense . Good point
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Re: Debt

Postby HALSTIME2KARMA » Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:50 pm

No, but possibly an apology may be in order.
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Re: Debt

Postby Harmonyexists » Fri May 03, 2013 8:46 pm

If you cheat on someone, you at least owe an apology.
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Re: Debt

Postby LemonGMA » Wed Jul 31, 2013 10:33 am

An apology is going to cut it with me. You say sorry for forgetting something not for cheating
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Re: Debt

Postby LittleMAC » Thu Nov 07, 2013 10:54 am

At the very least yeah you should say sorry
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Re: Debt

Postby CaIming » Mon Apr 21, 2014 11:12 am

prusK wrote :
> I have had less then 5 boyfriends in my life and been married to the same
> man for 12 years. I treated all of my past lovers fairly and never cheated
> once. The one thing I regret is how cold I was to them when I was ready for
> a break-up. I had already made up my mind that they were not the one for me
> and that I didnt see the point in being with them any longer if I didnt
> plan on getting married to them one day. Tears have been shed but I never
> wronged any of them just broke thier hearts. Thats what southern belles do
> though :) . The only debt that I think I owe is a apology to all the
> previous boyfriends for literally dropping them like a hot plate and not
> really caring for their feelings so to all of you out there I am sorry for
> the hurt that I may have caused you but it was a choice that I made and I
> stand by it.

Amen to that!
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