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I dont consider myself lucky that I have been cheated on but I get where you are trying to go with that. Lucky because you dont have to deal with a LOSER anymore! HAHAHA yeah then I guess I am lucky. He is lucky that I am a christian woman or he would have been very UNLUCKY to have cheated on me HAHAHAHA
Noble wrote : > I would rather find out that I got cheated on the day it happens so I didnt > get played for a fool. Finding out that you have been cheated on for years > must really destroy your trust in a relationship.
Very true! I think it would be harder to accept that the person you have decided to build a life with is a cheating SOB
I unfortunately was not lucky enough to find a man that didnt have an affair. We were college lovers and it blossomed into marriage but he was not ready for the forver part and decided to have an affair with a co worker. I guess I consider myself lucky that we are not together now but at the time I was distraught and alone and in need of love which he could not give to me. Trust your gut when you feel you are being cheated on because thats all you got.
WongC wrote : > I unfortunately was not lucky enough to find a man that didnt have an > affair. We were college lovers and it blossomed into marriage but he was > not ready for the forver part and decided to have an affair with a co > worker. I guess I consider myself lucky that we are not together now but at > the time I was distraught and alone and in need of love which he could not > give to me. Trust your gut when you feel you are being cheated on because > thats all you got.
I don't consider anyone lucky for being cheated on whether early or later in life. I think your lucky if when your cheated on, you can overcome the hurt and regret and move on to a loving relationship.