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Re: You're lucky

Postby Dlicious » Mon Apr 23, 2012 10:33 am

I dont consider myself lucky that I have been cheated on but I get where you are trying to go with that. Lucky because you dont have to deal with a LOSER anymore! HAHAHA yeah then I guess I am lucky. He is lucky that I am a christian woman or he would have been very UNLUCKY to have cheated on me HAHAHAHA
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Re: You're lucky

Postby BunkerHill » Thu May 03, 2012 3:18 pm

Noble wrote :
> I would rather find out that I got cheated on the day it happens so I didnt
> get played for a fool. Finding out that you have been cheated on for years
> must really destroy your trust in a relationship.

Very true! I think it would be harder to accept that the person you have decided to build a life with is a cheating SOB
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Re: You're lucky

Postby GleeFan » Tue Jan 08, 2013 12:37 pm

Im lucky I was cheated on in college or I would have never married my amazing husband Rodney and we wouldnt have our beautiful children
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Re: You're lucky

Postby PixPax » Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:08 am

Good solid advice...
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Re: You're lucky

Postby PixPax » Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:13 am

good Job
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Re: You're lucky

Postby WongC » Tue Feb 05, 2013 2:13 pm

I unfortunately was not lucky enough to find a man that didnt have an affair. We were college lovers and it blossomed into marriage but he was not ready for the forver part and decided to have an affair with a co worker. I guess I consider myself lucky that we are not together now but at the time I was distraught and alone and in need of love which he could not give to me. Trust your gut when you feel you are being cheated on because thats all you got.
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Re: You're lucky

Postby sulli » Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:20 pm

WongC wrote :
> I unfortunately was not lucky enough to find a man that didnt have an
> affair. We were college lovers and it blossomed into marriage but he was
> not ready for the forver part and decided to have an affair with a co
> worker. I guess I consider myself lucky that we are not together now but at
> the time I was distraught and alone and in need of love which he could not
> give to me. Trust your gut when you feel you are being cheated on because
> thats all you got.

Had nothing to do with you and you are lucky :D
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Re: You're lucky

Postby tawny » Wed Mar 27, 2013 9:55 pm

Im so sorry Wong C.. I hope you have found your true love..
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Re: You're lucky

Postby WalkwMe » Mon Apr 01, 2013 12:02 pm

Youre lucky WongC because if you had children with him you would have to remain in contact which would be very very hard
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Re: You're lucky

Postby missydee » Mon Apr 08, 2013 6:30 pm

I don't consider anyone lucky for being cheated on whether early or later in life. I think your lucky if when your cheated on, you can overcome the hurt and regret and move on to a loving relationship.
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